När en storasyster får tala...

Hon som växte upp med Oskar som har Angelmans Syndrom. Hon som nu är vuxen, har egna barn och fortfarande kan titta om och om igen på filmen Gilbert Grape - om Arnie och hans syskon...

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”Såg om den. Håller än. Fortfarande ärligaste filmen jag sett om att ha ett syskon med den typen av funktionsnedsättning. Även om jag alls inte levt i en sådan dysfunktionell familj som i filmen.

När jag såg den här filmen som barn sa jag: - Jag ska också ta hand om Oskar när jag blir stor. Då tittade pappa på mig och svarade: - Vet du vad Kristin, det som är så bra är att du aldrig kommer att behöva göra det.

Tänk om svaret istället blivit: ” Åh vad fint! Du är världens bästa storasyster.”

Det hade lätt kunnat omvandlats till ett krav i mitt huvud. Det föräldrar säger spelar roll. Tack pappa! Tack mamma! Tack för att jag bara fick vara en vanlig storasyster.”